Action Mindset

Action Mindset:

Some common sayings that refer to an Action Mindset are:

“Are you gonna talk or fish?”

“Time to get on with getting on.”

“Time to fish or cut bait.”

“Are you gonna do something or stand there and bleed?”

“You cannot plough a field by turning it over in your head.”

Walt Disney said: “The way you get started is to quit talking, and start doing.”

  1. Clement Stone said: “Thinking will not overcome fear, but action will.”

So it is said, we, as humans, have the capacity to use our thinking mindset and our action mindset. Through a recent study, (I cannot find the study right now) it has been determined we can only do one mindset at a time.

How many times have we been caught in an analysis paralysis, over thinking an action until the opportunity has past us by is an example of a Thinking Mindset. Take Action Peeps!

John Boyd is famous for developing the O.O.D.A. loop, Observe-Orient-Decide-Act, which is an example of an Action Mindset.   Too many times, in my observation, people have a mental model of how things should be, but They fail to Orient and move on. Applying the 2nd law of thermodynamics tells us a closed system will get more entropic over time. That means getting stuck in an observation loop will result in chaos, always.

I have experienced this first hand. I have worked in a hostile work environment for some time, where pressure and stress continually builds up. At the end of the work day, I would go home with headaches, upset stomach etc. Even though this was difficult to endure, I failed to move on for fear of the unknown. I was stuck in observation mode. By finally breaking free of observation mode, steps could be made to move on to better pastures. Adopting an action mindset, I finally oriented and decided and acted.

Another way of looking at this is to change the terms to “Abundance Consciousness” and “Scarcity Consciousness.” By creating an abundance consciousness, you can avoid the scarcity consciousness, also known as the freezing paralyzing mindset.

Here is a chart showing examples of how your thoughts can put you into one consciousness or another. Never underestimate the power of thought: Your thoughts create your reality.

Abundance Consciousness Scarcity Consciousness
*Attitude of gratitude *Worrying mindset
*Receive graciously *Critical behavior
*Give willingly *Hoarding behavior
*Want others to succeed *Secretly hope others will fail
*Set goals *Never set goals
*Take inspired action *Blame others for failures
*Develop life plans *Blame circumstance for things
*Exude happiness and joy *Exude anger
*Embrace change *Fear change
*Continuously learn and grow *Have a sense of entitlement
*Forgive past mistakes & others *Holding grudges
*Allow positive energy to flow *Feeling you don’t have enough
*Think positive thoughts *Know it all behavior
*Express positive ideas *Feel that things can’t change

Being busy does not always mean real work. The object of all work is production or accomplishment and to either of these ends there must be forethought, system, planning, intelligence, and honest purpose, as well as perspiration. Seeming to do is not doing.

― Thomas A. Edison 



Sgt. Stubby: Hero Dog of WWI

I love my dog, but if she hears fireworks, rustling paper, or the sound of a broom, she runs and hides. Not so with Stubby, a little stray bull terrier found by J. Robert Conroy and smuggled into the 102nd Infantry during WWI. Sgt. Stubby was originally intended to just be a mascot (he could do a little salute!), but soon proved far more useful. After suffering a mustard gas attack, Stubby became ultra-sensitive to its odor and was able to run through the trenches, barking and biting soldiers awake before an attack. The dog could locate wounded Americans on the battlefield by listening for the specific sounds of English amid the fracas. He’d stay and bark until the medics came, or lead the soldiers back to the trench.

Once, when a new soldier in the trench called to him, Stubby’s ears went flat and he charged. The man ran, and Stubby bit him on the leg, causing him to fall. Stubby kept attacking until soldiers came. The man he bit had been a German spy who was mapping out the trenches. Eventually, Stubby was injured and unable to return to the front line. He spent the rest of the war on duty in the hospital, improving the morale of the wounded men. By the end of WWI he’d been in 17 battles. Sgt. Stubby lived out the rest of his life comfortably with his master, Conroy.

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Challenges and Growth

Slow Death

I see them every day, lemmings clutching the steering wheel in a tense rage. Screaming and cursing their fellow traveler. Driving at speeds far exceeding their ability.

“Normal is getting dressed in clothes that you buy for work and driving through traffic in a car that you are still paying for – in order to get to the job you need to pay for the clothes and the car, and the house you leave vacant all day so you can afford to live in it.”

– Ellen DeGeneres

For what?   Fathers are you involved in your kids’ lives, or are you stuck at the office most times? Mothers, are you involved in your children’s lives, or are you stuck chasing the dream as well?

Know this, we-you-me are programmed from an early age. Trillions are spent getting us to contribute to the cause and lose focus on what is important and   Stay-In-Debt.

Break free my friend, Break Free.

I understand the need for money as a tool to purchase. My point is the pursuit of it and missing the lives going past.

Perhaps our money problems are not Income problems, but Spending problems?

Allow me to share with you a story, some may consider this sad, maybe it was or maybe it was a transmogrification.

Our hero grew up in middle class America, happy childhood, lived in the North. Let’s call the standard of living a lower middle class. Somewhere in there, unbeknownst to our hero, his mom and his dad met to plan the future as many parents do. You see Dad was an instructor at a company called Boces. He taught basic hands on job skills to folks like welding, plumbing, electrical, etc. He liked his job, although he did not make much in the line of salary. So it was decided he would get a better paying job to afford the Better life for the family. He did what many men have done since the dawn of time, he went out, sacrificed himself, and as it turned out, his happiness, for the good of the family.

Fast forward a few years, and the family moved to FL. They now have a 4 bedroom, 2 ½ bath house with an in-ground pool, and have now promoted to upper middle class.   But this came with the cost of DEBT. So now Dad works A LOT. Consequently, he cannot attend kid’s school functions and football games and wrestling meets because he is too busy with work. This increases his stress levels and to compensate, he begins to drink and keep in mind that this is All for the good of the family.   But the effort to achieve the advertised American dream has effected Mom too. She has to work extra hours as well, as the stress of debt and bills builds, she starts to drink too. Gotta keep running faster to stay ahead of the debt boulder, gotta allow bad supervisors and bosses to belittle you and demand more and more time because they have the mortgage and bills and Debt to consider.

Completely sold on this life and the consumerism that masks itself as the ideal dream, decisions are now based on the imaginary specter.

Fast forward a decade and now Mom and Dad are trying to hide their habit, but it eventually kills them. Son is 23 now and both parents are gone, lost to the pursuit of a dream. But parents had life insurance, not a lot, and so life goes on for the son. But, because he grew up, immersed in the dream that his parents were pursuing and so never learned true money management lessons, and so repeats many of the same mistakes.

He did learn some lessons though. He learned that life is short and that memories mean more than things. So he uses the insurance money to gather experiences: NBA Finals, Travel to Korea, chase his own dream in life to open a martial arts school. But he repeats his parent’s mistake of the lifestyle dream as well: too big of a house, dining out too much, living large, etc. Eventually, he is forced to make a choice between the lifestyle and the dream. So he sells the house that he can no longer afford anymore, and continues to chase dream. He is forced to live in back of the school for some time.

It was during this time of low economic success that he finds personal fulfilment. He discovers and observes the societal programing to work long hours in the Hope of financial freedom. He comes to a conclusion: You have work for yourself, and not for someone else. You either work to live or you live to work.

“Make space in your life for the things that matter, for family and friends, love and generosity, fun and joy. Without this, you will burn out in mid-career and wonder where your life went.”

― Jonathan Sacks

“Don’t get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life.”

― Dolly Parton

Please understand that I do not intend to preach or condemn or belittle.

This is a painful subject, not just for myself, but for everyone, I believe. We are constantly bombarded with advertising in one form or another in our lives. This works to program us to feel the need for bigger and better. But is bigger truly better?

Your house may be small and your family large, but does that truly mean that you must upsize your house? Well, maybe it does and maybe it doesn’t. Think about this: Can you afford your current house payment without a strain on your budget? Will moving into a bigger house put a strain on your budget that requires you to increase your work load, maybe force you into a second or third job to compensate? I have met people who live in small houses, where children have to share bedrooms and bathrooms, but they do not want for food, clothes, or toys and they have plenty of family time with their parents.

By the same token, I have seen families in the same situation that made the choice to upscale and give the children their own bedrooms/bathrooms and more indulgent toys. The clothes are a better quality and the toys are more expensive, but the family time virtually disappears as both parents are consumed with work hours and are exhausted when they get home. Children are involved now in before and after school activities that keep them away from home too.

Is this truly the American Dream that we are being sold?

“There is nothing more difficult to take in hand, more perilous to conduct, or more uncertain in its success, than to take the lead in the introduction of a new order of things.”

― Niccolo Machiavelli

Dark Passenger

Dark Passenger

There lies within us that sneaky voice, it whispers or maybe it is louder. It speaks and slithers as a serpent and wraps itself around your psyche.

It whispers “you cannot do it” “you will fail” “you’re too fat” “no one likes you” Pervasive it is.

I am sure you have heard the tale of the frog in the boiling water; Take a frog and drop it in boiling water it tries to hop out. Put a frog in cold water and slowly turn up the heat… it never leaves and dies in the pot.

This is how the dark passenger attacks you; Slowly and Methodically building a self-made prison of doubt and fear. Confining thought. The dark passenger is slow and methodical, it is rare that it speaks during great times; instead it waits and speaks when times are lean. Slow and methodical, it waits for opportune times, times rife with uncertainty.

One of my teachers would say: “Good self-talk is good, Bad self-talk is Real Bad.”

It is going to attack you through fear; Fear of failure, using tools of indecision and “you tried this already and failed” and “you have to much responsibility to do this now” and “you cannot do it right or perfect yet” all these ways it will sub verse you.

He may even get you to “just take one hit” or “one drink cannot hurt” It tries to replace “love” with addiction.

Good news though.

It is all imaginary. You made it up.   Many times the journey is worth the destination.

My purpose here is to empower you to move beyond the fear that is blocking you, that self-made prison of doubt, limiting beliefs and deception that tricks you into staying still.

Dr Wayne Dyer says something to the effect of “when you change the way you look at things, The things you look at change”

The juice is worth the squeeze.

My friend Mac would say ” Fear has No place in a fully focused mind.”

One of my treasured quotes by Albert Camus ” In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer.”

Kick it and his weak ass inbred brother, fear, in the piss pump people, make it only useful as a dust flap to keep dust out his butt crack!